The Natural Rhythm of Life

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The falling leaves drift by the window
The autumn leaves of red and gold
I see your lips, the summer kisses
The sun-burned hands I used to hold

Since you went away the days grow long
And soon I’ll hear old winter’s song
But I miss you most of all my darling
When autumn leaves start to fall

English lyrics by Johnny Mercer

Does the autumn make you sad?

The waning sunlight lets us know that the sweetness of summer is beginning to fade, and the dark nights are coming.

This season isn’t something that everyone experiences.  Coming from Malaysia, there are no distinct seasons, apart from the rainy and hot season.  So, when I first moved over to England, experiencing the changing seasons was fascinating and exciting for me.

The Earth, like us, breathes with unyielding rhythm and there is no better time to observe this than during a change of seasons when the breath wave of Mother Earth can be experienced through our senses.

With the downward-moving inhale, all elements are magnetised toward the Earth. Plants surrender their vegetation in response to shorter days and cooler temperatures. Their leaves, drained of life-giving sustenance, eventually fall in the ultimate display of impermanence. Moisture and heat are absorbed into the ground.

So, as vehicles of the universal breath, we can interpret these environmental cues as a reflection of our internal seasons and emulate the perennial wisdom of the planet by letting go, slowing down and taking time to regenerate our bodies and our spirit.

This is a time for meditation and rest. Use this opportunity to surrender to your inner gravity, ask difficult questions and listen deeply for what arises.  This is a time to excavate anything that may be churning beneath the surface, a time to invite such thoughts and emotions to gently rise and dissolve.

Here are some contemplation questions to meditate on, or journal about …

  • What has been your personal harvest this year, what has brought you joy?
  • What seeds of insight will you collect and re-plant in the next season?
  • How can you conserve energy by releasing any unnecessary effort in this cycle?
  • If your body were to speak, what would it say to you?

From an Ayurvedic perspective, Vata is the predominant constitution during this time of the year, where the elements of air and space are prevalent. When in excess, mobility in the body may result in dryness, joint pain, insomnia and a general feeling of unease, which could lead to feelings of fear, anxiety and irritability.

So, get grounded. Keep only what is absolutely necessary on your personal, professional and social calendars. Get more rest by eating an earlier evening meal and committing to a regular bedtime. Develop a fall rhythm and stick to a ritual routine, be it exercise, nutrition or self-care.

Favour warm, cooked foods over raw and allow time for eating. Refrain from drinking cold water or juices and drink room temperature or hot beverages instead. Cook with heating spices like cumin, ginger and fennel to maintain a steady digestive fire.

Hot water tends to dehydrate the skin, so take time to use a rich body butter, to moisturise. Diffuse warm, earthy scents like geranium, patchouli and rose. Listen to slow rhythmic music with heavy drumbeats and deep melodic chanting with vibrations that draw your energy closer to the earth.

May You Dream Awake

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It’s May! And, it’s my 50th birthday on Monday, and what we decided to do was make a 5-day trip to Kim’s dad’s favourite hotel in Portugal.

We haven’t been here since his dad started to get worse and then passed on just over a year ago.  He’s always loved this hotel and came back yearly for over 8 years.  Kim and I have been a few times prior, and it seemed fitting that we pay a visit, especially since they had a massive refurb.

And, it was like coming home!

It was so lovely to be greeted by some of the key staff as they’d seen our booking and were looking forward to seeing us again; and their condolences for Kim’s dad.  We’re only on our second day here, and the refurb is great and the view is breathtaking.

Being here I’ve had quite a few people message me to say that they hoped I was switching off and relaxing.  The thing is, I do make time for myself and I have time off to relax during my “normal” week.  It reminded me of what one of our business coaches said to Kim.  Most people associate “pain” with work, e.g. you work hard and then have a holiday.  That’s when you get to relax and switch off.

For me, my life is my kind of life.  The “work” I choose to do is part of that, as is my “time off”.  This is my kind of life, being able to write, read, reach out to people, coach our Arbonne team members via conference calling, etc. whilst in Portugal.  My day is the same, the view (and weather) is different.  The closing keynote speaker at the Arbonne global conference in Vegas a couple of weeks ago asked us if we were dreaming with our eyes closed or open.  Her mission is to show people that we can dream with our eyes wide open; dream whilst we are awake.

AND, IT’S NOT THAT HARD!

Would you honestly say no to beautiful weather, not having to cook, stunning views, and  the only catch I say to you is that you have to serve and help other people?

Would you?

We have but one life.

Live it well.  DREAM OUT LOUD.

Don’t work yourself to the ground only to take a holiday once a year, in some place that is within your budget. Don’t say to your children, take a gap year and enjoy it before you start on the career ladder, and when you have responsibilities. Don’t save up to work through your bucket list when you retire; you may never get to even start  on it.

I truly just desire that you live your life well, with no compromise and no regrets. It upsets me when people have too much month after each pay day, and when people settle.  Don’t get me wrong.  I’ve been there, and I know how it feels.

Believe me when I say that it is possible to live life differently and on your terms.  It took a few coaches to help me see that.

ARE YOU READY to dream awake?

Would you like me to help you?

I look forward to hearing from you.  Know, from the bottom of my heart, that THERE IS NO PRESSURE FOR YOU TO BE A PART OF MY LIFE.

(I would love to share this space and time with you though).

Much love … Ann-See x